Is it possible to be angry at someone who is dead, or are feelings about someone only valid towards living beings? If I was going through grief counseling right now I would ask Staci this. Because, how do you deal with that? If it is not possible where do you direct your feelings/emotions. If it is possible then I would ask the same question. Either way, they would have to be approached differently.
I had a boss that always told me it was impossible to "love" an inatimate object. I would say "I love that car" or "I love that house"...and she always responded that you can't love an inatimate obect. Is a dead person inatimate? If so, maybe I can't actually have any emotional feelings towards a dead person. So, how do you deal with it? Do you redirect it? Do you ignore it...you can't do that, the feelings are real. Do you cry? I've already done that.
You have probably guessed it by now...I am angry at Ray. That is as far as I will go in this blog. The reason "why?"...I will not share. However, this blog is about my journey through the loss of my partner of 21 years so I share things people "may not want to hear." I also know that I have limits in which I have to be candid. I will find a way to deal with these feelings. It will make me stronger. I will be a better person. I will grow. Right now I am angry and sad. - Jimmy
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